Archive for August, 2009

Do Online Affairs Count As Infidelity?

Wednesday, August 12th, 2009

Should online affairs be classed as infidelity or are they less serious than a physical affair?

Online-Infidelity

Would you count an online affair as infidelity?

On Monday this week (10/8/09) the Metro published the results of its latest Metro-Harris poll on sex, relationships and infidelity.  It seems that when it comes to infidelity the over 55s are far more forgiving than the younger generation.

According to the survey, 49% of 16-24-year-olds see online infidelity in the same way as they would an actual physical affair, compared to less than a third of over 55s.

The younger age group also has stricter parameters on what constitutes an affair.   63% of them believe that you do not have to have sex to be unfaithful, compared to just 38% of those over 55. (more…)

Date Film: The Ugly Truth

Thursday, August 6th, 2009
The Ugly Truth, in UK cinemas August 5th

The Ugly Truth, in UK cinemas August 5th

It’s a battle of the sexes that ends as all rom-coms do, with the pair falling madly in love – but The Ugly Truth delves deeper into the psychology of what makes men from Mars and women from Venus.

For centuries, great thinkers have pondered the vast gap that exists between the male point of view and the female, and wondered if we can ever really connect.  Enter The Ugly Truth – a smart, sexy comedy about men, women and the giant abyss that stands between the way we each think about, fantasize about and try and seduce the other. (more…)

Romantic Restaurants

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

Don’t know where to take your date for dinner?  Dine out in style at one of these hip and happening restaurants.

Have you got a favourite romantic restaurant?  Drop us a comment and let us know!

Have you got a favourite romantic restaurant? Drop us a comment and let us know!

Whether you’re looking for seafood, Swedish or the latest in fusion cuisine, these restaurants are perfect for a dinner date.

Crabshakk in Glasgow serves fish and seafood at very reasonable prices and was named ‘New Restaurant of the Year 2009’ at the Scottish Chef Awards.  Definitely a place to check out if you live in Glasgow.

Nearby is Guy’s Restaurant and Bar, run by local chef Guy Cowan who is now back in Glasgow after spending twenty years feeding Hollywood A-listers through his catering business.

Jamie Oliver’s Italian has opened in Brighton not far from the town’s famous Lanes, another branch has also opened this week in Canary Wharf in London. In Brighton and Clapham Junction you will find his Recipease shop where you can learn how to cook great food with your date – we love the idea of doing this on a date! (more…)

Funny First Date No-Nos

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

Next time you’re nervous about a first date or return home disappointed because it didn’t go as you’d hoped, take a look back at these and breathe a sigh of relief!

Here’s a few of our favourite and funny first date no-nos from JustSingles.com HQ, and we hope you’ll add a few of yours to the comment boxes below. These actually happened!

Never suggest your date might meet your mother’s expectations.

Don’t discuss the girl you dated with STDs.

Never take your overnight bag with you on a first date.

Don’t insist on buying your date a pair of shoes and then admit you have a shoe fetish.

Avoid talking about the ex – or how they took you to the cleaners and left you with the ailing pooch and her expensive vet fees…

Select your food wisely because we’re all of the opinion that spaghetti around the chops is never a good look.

Never pay for the date with a gift card…

Check that your blind date isn’t a relative first.

Never produce a ticket to Dubai and a spare key to your house at the end of a first date.  (As surprising as it sounds, this really did happen to someone at JustSingles HQ!)

Make sure the anonymous and gorgeous girl who sent you a friend request on Facebook is not really your ex-girlfriend.

Do you have any that can top these? Let us know!

First Date Sex?

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

Is it ever wise to sleep with someone you are genuinely interested in pursuing a relationship with on a first date?

We’re divided in opinion here at JustSingles.com so we thought we’d put the question to you.

Does it really make a difference in this day and age if you are both genuinely attracted to each other?  Is life too short not to go with the flow?

Is it ok to let the chemistry bubble over and drown out common sense?  Or does it convey the impression that you hit the sack with all your first dates, and lead to a morning-after packed with regret?

Would you, or is it a definite no-no?  Let us know your views and experiences by leaving a comment below.

Happy Couples!

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

Share your success story with JustSingles.com

Share your success story with JustSingles.com

There’s nothing we like more than a happy ever after story, so if you’ve met someone through JustSingles.com, drop us a line and share your good news with us!

Success stories always put a big smile on all our faces here at JustSingles.com, but then we wouldn’t be in the online dating business if it didn’t!  So if you have met someone just right for you through JustSingles.com, please drop us a line and make our day!

We’d love to know how it happened, who sent the initial message or wink, those first date details and onwards and upwards from there.  And if you have a photo of the two of you together, we would love to see the smiles on your faces too!

We’ve created a ‘Share Your Success Story‘ form so it’s even easier for you to tell us all about your good news.  There is a fair bit of detail because these are the sorts of questions journalists ask us when they’re looking for couples for an online dating feature.  Of course we’ll never share your story without checking with you first, but if you do decide you’d like to tell the world about your happiness, we’ll give you a cash reward to say thank you!

You can take a look here – Share Your Success Story

JustSingles.com Loves Eddie Izzard & His Mammoth Run

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

The crazy but utterly lovable Eddie Izzard plans to run over 1000 miles through four countries in a seven week mammoth run in aid of Sports Relief.

Eddie takes a break at a fair ground in Cardiff

Eddie takes a break at a fair ground in Cardiff

We were astonished and amazed to hear about Eddie Izzard’s seven week challenge in aid of Sports Relief. The 47-year-old comedian is running thirty miles a day through all four nations, taking in Cardiff, Belfast and Edinburgh on the way!

The cross-dressing comedian says the idea had been bubbling away for the last ten years, although he revealed he’d done just four weeks of training prior to setting out from London’s Trafalgar Square at 6am on Monday July 27th.

He’s accompanied by an ice cream van that dishes out free cones in hope of a donation, and an entourage consisting of two tents, a camper van and a sports therapist, whom we think he’ll be needing!

So far he has been serenaded in various ways en route. 50-year-old Mo Bennie who runs Granny Mo’s cafe on the banks of the Kennet and Avon Canal, organised a welcoming party wearing her shiny black stilettos especially for the comedian.  Su Stafford from Wadworth Brewery’s visitor centre greeted him with a pint of Wadworth 6X, and you can see the banner two children in Wales made for him out of an old cereal packet on his Twitter page.

He is already sporting his first blister but says that isn’t going to stop him. And whilst speaking to Scott Mills on the Radio 1 Breakfast Show he asked that people offer their encouragement when they drive past him with a honk of their horn. He can certainly have a honk or two from us – go Eddie!

You can follow Eddie Izzard and his progress on Twitter at https://twitter.com/eddieizzard and you can donate money in support of Eddie here: http://www.comicrelief.com/donate/eddie

Lembit Opik’s Dating Techniques

Thursday, August 6th, 2009

What we’d like to know at JustSingles.com this week, are a few of Lembit Opik’s dating techniques!

Lembit Opik is dating Katie Green

Lembit Opik is dating Katie Green

We’re intrigued, slightly flummoxed and wondering just how he pulls it off, but the 44-year-old Lib Dem MP is now dating 22-year-old lingerie model Katie Green.

Apparently the pair met at a party a couple of months ago and according to the News of the World, friends say the ex-Wonderbra model is smitten with the Montgomeryshire MP. (more…)